I often wonder if I've made a difference in the world. I often look back and wonder what kind of legacy I will leave behind. I know that the clients I have served have made a HUGE impact on my life. They are the reason I met Sam. They have taught me so much. They have cheered me up, cheered me on, made me laugh, taught me to appreciate all that I have.
There was one client, we will call him Shawn (that's not his real name but confidentiatly...) I spent hours and hours working with him, like go in the morning help with breakfast etc send him to a day program and then be there when we got home until he went to bed 5 to 7 days a week. He very much liked routine. He didn't do well with new people so there was only a few of us that he was used to and that knew his little quirks. Like don't expect an immediate response, it takes him a minute to process and respond.
He is so smart but his autism limits how he can express his knowledge. He would read and research all sorts of stuff but his favorite topic was always Polynesia. We went to every activity we could find that had anything to do with Polynesia. We spent hours at the library. We spent a lot of time talking. He could always make me laugh.
Ever since I've known him he has dreamed of going to Hawaii. I started working with him in 1999 and he had been saving a long time before that. Every time he would get close to saving enough money something would happen.
But today when I opened the mail I opened a card with this in it.
I'll be honest I teared up a little bit. HE MADE IT! He finally made it to Hawaii. I am so proud of him. He worked so hard, and his amazing family for helping him. It made me so happy.
There was also a letter about all that his family has been doing, what all his siblings have been up to etc. at the bottom of the letter in handwriting that is very familiar it says "Dear Andrea you will always hold a special place in our hearts for the excellent care you gave "Shawn" and for your encouragement in planning for Hawaii. HE MADE IT!! Love you, ...."
Sometimes its nice to know that what you have done has made a difference.
COMPANIONS WITH A MASS MURDERER (not clickbate)
6 years ago



















