Friday, December 21, 2012

Differences

I often wonder if I've made a difference in the world. I often look back and wonder what kind of legacy I will leave behind. I know that the clients I have served have made a HUGE impact on my life. They are the reason I met Sam. They have taught me so much. They have cheered me up, cheered me on, made me laugh, taught me to appreciate all that I have.
There was one client, we will call him Shawn (that's not his real name but confidentiatly...) I spent hours and hours working with him, like go in the morning help with breakfast etc send him to a day program and then be there when we got home until he went to bed 5 to 7 days a week.  He very much liked routine. He didn't do well with new people so there was only a few of us that he was used to and that knew his little quirks. Like don't expect an immediate response, it takes him a minute to process and respond.
He is so smart but his autism limits how he can express his knowledge. He would read and research all sorts of stuff but his favorite topic was always Polynesia. We went to every activity we could find that had anything to do with Polynesia. We spent hours at the library. We spent a lot of time talking. He could always make me laugh.
Ever since I've known him he has dreamed of going to Hawaii. I started working with him in 1999 and he had been saving a long time before that. Every time he would get close to saving enough money something would happen.
But today when I opened the mail I opened a card with this in it.
I'll be honest I teared up a little bit. HE MADE IT! He finally made it to Hawaii. I am so proud of him. He worked so hard, and his amazing family for helping him. It made me so happy.
There was also a letter about all that his family has been doing, what all his siblings have been up to etc. at the bottom of the letter in handwriting that is very familiar it says "Dear Andrea you will always hold a special place in our hearts for the excellent care you gave "Shawn" and for your encouragement in planning for Hawaii. HE MADE IT!! Love you, ...."

Sometimes its nice to know that what you have done has made a difference.

More than I deserve

I love my Super Sam more than I can ever put down into words. But Sam is amazing there is something in him so much greater than anyone I have every known. Everyday I am so grateful he choose me.
I am the luckiest.
 

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Elephant crawl

Lexi started pulling herself up on stuff yesterday and today she is doing the Mogely elephant crawl (the one from the jungle book, flat hands but on his feet.) she is into everything. Another mobile master of mischief and mayhem.

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Gifts

We made the boys teachers "Rice Bags" for their gift. Here is the tag that we attached.
I forgot to take a picture before we handed them all out.
The teachers seemed to love them. We got quite a few Thank you cards back and they have mentioned how nice they were to use with the snow.
 
 For our neighbor gifts we attached this tag to a roll of paper towels.
The neighbor gifts got mixed reactions. Once they read the tag it made sense but at first a few people were like why are you bringing me a roll of paper towels. But I really wanted to give out something that people would use.
The last year we lived in SLC we gave out bottles of Peach Salsa with a tag that said have a hot and spicy holiday.
The first year we lived her we gave out Glass Ornaments with pictures of the Savior in them.
Second year we gave out old looking skeleton keys on a ribbon with a tag that had a quote about letting the Savior in.  
Third year... (I could have gotten the third and second year mixed up) but we gave out Tiles on a ribbon that spelled out Joy.
Last year we gave out notepads with a pen and note that said Just dropping you a note to say thanks for being our friends (or something to that effect) The notepads were the least time consuming. I was pregnant and supposed to be on bedrest.
This year wasn't to time consuming either I just didn't have a whole lot of umph and creativity. But I'm hoping people got that we cared and that we were thinking about them this holiday.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Forsgren family Christmas

We had a family Christmas party with my parents and siblings. We ate, did a few crafts, made ginger bread houses, had a program. It was great to see everyone.









This is our Gingerbread house. We brought candy that we got the night before as part of a white elephant gift exchange. We made it a nightmare before Christmas theme. Yep that's Santa's bum crashed into the roof.





Elf on the Shelf

We got the Elf on the Shelf a few years ago.
We have a friend the moved away, and she misses spending Christmas with everyone. So she sends us a random gift in December to help get is in the Christmas spirit. One year it was stuff to make sugar cookies, one year it was a ton of Christmas Music and one year it was the Elf on the Shelf.
Seth named him Buddy. (no one else had input on the name because they weren't born yet)
Every year we do random things with him. This year I got some ideas off Pinterest.
 
 Buddy and Mr. Potatohead having a snowball fight
 Buddy taped up their door with snowflakes and crepe paper.
 Buddy held baby Jesus
Buddy drew faces (you can't see it really well in the pic) on their pictures
 
He also has done things like been hanging from a parachute from the ceiling fan, he's been in a large paper airplane hanging from the ceiling, he put up Christmas lights around the boys' beds and  got all tangled up in them, he wrapped some presents and put them under the tree and got all tangled up in the paper, he put a goldfish in the bathroom sink and had a fishing pole, he does little acts for service for the boys a few times a week.
It's fun for us and the boys. They like to get up and look for him. It's nice to be able to say Buddy is watching and going to tell Santa Claus.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

FrontRunner Ride

Saturday it was free ride day for the Frontrunner train that was opening in Utah county. The boys really wanted to ride. So we went down.
It was FREEZING!
We stood in line, they were only letting 50 people get on the train at a time and the trains were running every 1/2 hour. We waited outside for about 30 mins and there was still a 45 minute wait until it was our turn to get on the train. But UTA was nice and got buses to come and park in the parking lot. They put 50 people on each bus. So instead of waiting outside in the cold you got to sit on a heated bus. The boys loved being on a city bus, they thought that was pretty cool.
We were talking to a UTA worker who warned us that the lines in SLC were even longer to get home. So I put Sam, Seth and Chris on the train and I got in the car and drove to pick them up. Because standing in the cold for 2 to 3 hours to get back did not sound like fun.
They got to ride in the second story and had a seat by the window. Well, Sam had a seat by the window and the boys shared his lap. It was really crowded but they had a great time.
(the pictures of them actually on the train are on Sam's phone so maybe one day they will make it on here)



Friday, December 14, 2012

A day in the life

What do we do all day?
 Some days we go to the park
 Some days we play nice together
 We always do our home work
 We make breakfast
 We make faces
 We make a mess
 We jump
 We race cars
 We give our opinions on everything
 We color
 We act silly
 We fight dinosaurs with our team of K9's
 We decorate boxes to send to friends and family
 We dress up... todays hero is SuperSethbatmanapronboypenguinfeet.
 We rock out to some tunes
We make wassial. (why wassial? because he made it at school and loved it.)
 
So that's some of what we do in a day.
It's a tough job but somebody has to do it.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Kitty

 Now that it's cold the kitties spend more time inside. Mooshoe likes to sleep with Seth. He was not that impressed when Seth decided to sleep with the tent on his bed, Mooshoe is a cuddly kitty.
Sometimes you will find him cuddling Lexi during her nap. I have pictures I just have to find them.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Zoo Lights

We go to the Zoo a lot but we have always been to cheap to pay $15 a person to go to zoo lights. This year though their member discount days fell on a night we could go. It was pretty cool to go with all the lights. But the boys were a little disappointed that  there were no Apes out, no Giraffes, No Elephants, only 1 sleeping tiger, sleeping bears that were barely visable, the center of the reptile house was closed, so not a whole lot of animals out. But it was still a good time and the boys liked the light up animals.



Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Christmas Cards

Here are the 2012 Christmas Cards & a copy of our family letter that went out.  The film strip on the letter goes down the whole side of the text so it looks better printed out.
 
 
Dear Family and Friends,
We have survived another year. 2012 was an eventful year for our family but we survived.
Sam is still running the LDS Employment Center in Provo and Springville. He is serving as President of the Pacesetters Group for the local Chamber of Commerce. He is still serving on our Stake’s High Council. Sam is working hard and being successful in all of his endeavors. Sam had 2 tumors removed in July. One tumor was in his back which was a little larger than a baseball. The other was in his chest and was quite a bit smaller. He recovered quickly and doesn’t seem to have any lasting effects.
Andrea has been slowly recovering from the pregnancy and after effects. The seizures and blood sugars seem to be in control for now and hopefully will continue that way. She went back to school, yes again; to get a degree she can hopefully do something with.
Seth turned 5 in September. He is still very curious and active as ever. He is the only one this year that didn’t have something major medically happen. He missed the state cutoff for Kindergarten by nine days, so we enrolled him in a private Kindergarten Program to help focus some of his curiosity. He loves going to school every day and is thriving. Seth still loves animals and loves to find out every fact he can about various species. He is very creative and builds the most imaginative things and says that he wants to be an Engineer or a Large Cat Trainer when he grows up.
Christian turned 3 in August. He started preschool this fall and is loving going to school. He had his tonsils and adenoids out in May because they were so swollen they were impeding his breathing. He refused to eat or drink after and had a visit back to the hospital but has recovered and is back to all his mischievous ways with his brother.  Christian likes to paint, draw and color right now. He loves trains and to point out train tracks where ever we go.
Alexandria Avalynn joined our family on February 25th at 4:49am, 6 lbs 14 oz, 20 1/2 inches long. She made her debut a little early and had a few complications after birth. She spent the first 2 months on oxygen and struggled to gain weight at first but is growing well now and breathing fine.  She is a very happy and content little girl who loves to share her smile. She is mobile and loves to crawl around and chase the dogs or try to keep up with her brothers.  She babbles and coos. She is just as sweet as sweet can be.
Marie moved out In December 2011. She is doing well in her new placement with other teenagers. Emilie, Marie’s sister, moved in with us last December for an emergency placement. She lived with us most of the month of January until she moved in with Marie. Since both girls moved we decided that for now we needed a break from doing foster care.
We took a family vacation this year with the theme “Road less Traveled.”  We tried to stay off some of the major highways and see the random stuff most people miss. We headed out across the desert of Utah and Nevada and then into California. We visited Redwood National Forest and saw the big trees. From California we headed up the coast through Oregon, where he got to visit with family. After the Oregon Coast we got to spend some time in Portland where Sam had some business to do. From Portland we went into Washington to visit some more family. After our visit there we headed home through Oregon, then Idaho then back to Utah. It was around-about two weeks but we loved the time together as a family and had such a great time.
It was an eventful year for our little family. It had some ups and downs but there was so much joy in our journey. We hope as you catch up on our family that yours is doing well.  

Monday, December 10, 2012