Sunday, May 12, 2013

Mexico Day 2

 Thursday May 2nd was our 10 year anniversary.
I let Sam pick the excursion. He picked one that was done by National Geographic. They limit tour size to less than 12 people and they only have 4 groups go a day and only 4 days a week.
National Geographic partnered with a few local Mayan villages. They wanted to save the cenotes, and keep the mayan people from being pushed out of their land by big resorts.
I guess Cancun didn't pop up until the 1970's before that it was just little villages and those little villages and the Mayan civilizations are being pushed out to make more resorts for tourists.
Side note because Cancun is based around the tourist industry  their other resources are really lacking like a school system because tourists don't need a school.
 We  took a dirt road off the main highway for quite a while and then "hiked" a little bit to get into their village.

 There were alters and stuff set up along the way.
 We went down into a cenote that the village uses like a church.
 The shaman blessed us. He prayed to their higher power  thanking him for letting us come because we were helping his people be able to stay there and not have to go out of the village to find work.
He burned some amber sap off one of the trees and had us breath in the smoke to cleanse our insides and blew it over us to cleanse our outsides. There was a little alter in there where he had some stuff set up. It was really really cool. The Mayans believe that there is heaven, earth and the underworld. But the underworld isn't hell, and the cenotes are the gateway to the underworld.

Even though  the shaman had cleansed us we still rinsed off considering we were going to be swimming through their drinking water.


 Trail down into one of the cenotes.


 This is Servando, he was our guide. He is getting his graduate degree in Mexican History with a focus on the Mayans. He is from Mexico city and had so much knowledge. He has been working with the Mayans in these villages for almost 5 years now.  He explained the ice ages and how the caves were formed and then the Mayan folklore behind it.
 The cenotes were like Timpanogus Cave only filled with water. It was amazing.



 We swam through the  first Cenote and then repelled into the next.



 
 Next we ziplined to another area of the Jungle.


 The climb straight up to the zip line
 The view from the top

 Cenote at the bottom.



 Our guide was able to tell us random stuff like there is a tree with alligator looking bark and black sap that will give you third degree chemical burns if you touch it. But it always grows very close to another tree that if you boil it's leaves it's the sav for the burn. There is a bunch of Mayan folklore about Good and Bad brothers.

 Another Zip line

 And then another that landed in another Cenote.
 The bottom of the zip line.  
 Then we snorkeled through another Cenote

 The cave had bats and blind cave fish in it. They used to have blind cave fish at the zoo.
 

 

 













  





 After all that we went and had lunch in the Mayan Village. I asked about if it contained wheat and our guide chuckled at me and said they don't grow wheat so it's not going to be in their food. Every thing was made by the village. They had made their own cheese, sour cream, empanadas, soups, chicken every thing was made, grown right there. It was very delicious. And did you know that each Mayan village makes their cheese slightly different so all taste slightly different.

After lunch we had ziplined/ swam so far into the Jungle  that we had to take an old WW2 vehicle out. It was quite a 4 wheeling ride.    
  We had an opportunity to buy some local stuff that was made there in the village. This guy had made a bunch stuff out of clay. They had a kindof makeshift pottery wheel. It was really cool. We got a Jaguar call. They don't use them much any more because most of the jaguars have been killed but it sounds really cool. All the stuff you could buy had been blessed by the Shaman too.

 After we got back from the Jungle it was late afternoon. So we went out to the beach and to the pool. While at the pool we took a scuba lesson.

 
 During the scuba lesson it started to pour.


 


 But cleared up quickly







 This is Regonald our scuba instructor he was French.







 After we finished our lesson it started to down pour again.

 Us running back to our room across the resort
 We cleaned up and went to a nice dinner. On Sam's tablet there is a pic of us in Sum-barrows at dinner because they knew it was our anniversary. But I don't know how to get the pics off there yet so it will just be something you have to picture in your head.

We talked alot at dinner but that will be another post.


Saturday, May 11, 2013

Mexico Day 1

Wednesday we slept in.
We ate breakfast late. 
We had nothing planned for the day. 
 enjoying the balcony
After Breakfast we explored the resort. 
 We saw our first of many many many iguanas. 
 And we played in the Ocean. 
There was a storm coming so the waves were big enough to body surf. 




 Then we lounged in a hammock by the pool
 We explored some more

 We had dinner reservations at the Spanish restaurant that night. 
 
 Food: The resort had multiple buffets open all the  time, and then you got vouchers for the fine dining restaurants for 3 dinners.  I had a little letter they typed up in Spanish for me to give the chef when we went to eat so they knew I couldn't have gluten and I needed carb counts. The one head chef also has celiacs so he was really good to make sure I didn't get sick. I didn't eat off the buffets very often because he would make me special stuff. He would ask what I wanted the next day and I told him to surprise me. He would make stuff that was delicious and was nicer than the buffet so I felt very spoiled to have my own personal chef. He made me stuff like a potato crusted fish, chili lime pork chops it was all so delicious.

After dinner we went and sat on the beach. It was only 8pm and we did not see another soul on the beach so we just got to sit and talk. Not the half asleep mumble talk as you fade in and out. It was an actual uninterrupted conversation that didn't really accomplish anything other than being together and that't just what we needed.

Friday, May 10, 2013

Threadbare

Sam and I had debated for months about what to do for our 10 year anniversary.
We had also debated about what to use our tax refund this year on.
Do we invest more in the house? Put more into savings?
After some long talks, we decided we needed to do something for us.
We have invested in the house and that will be a never ending thing.
We needed to invest in us.
It's been a long few years. In between my health stuff, the pregnancy, miscarriages, surgeries, kids, school, work, obligations, foster care, etc us as a couple was getting kind of threadbare.  Not like we were getting a divorce or anything. We just weren't as strong as we wanted to be. We were tired. We felt like we were stealing moments to see each other. I was staying up late to do homework, he was working a lot. He was nice and would let me sleep until the moment he had to leave for work. The times he was home he was trying to take the kids so I could get homework done. Date nights were almost non existent. Sleep was down to bare minimum  We never had more than a few moments together. I can't think of a better way to describe it other than threadbare. We wanted to be as strong as a couple as we could be but there wasn't much time to spare any where to fit another thing in.  
So we decided to invest in us and take a vacation.
Once we decided to go on vacation it was another few months of trying to decide where to go.
We ended up deciding on Mexico. Going to Mexico left us enough money to still invest in the house and put in a sprinkler system. (Yeah Tithing!)

I researched, I talked to people, trying to find a place that I wouldn't get sick eating there. What was the best stuff to do etc.

Trying to pick a date to go was hard. When could Sam fit it into work? When was a break in Spring and Summer Semester? When didn't it conflict with Kids stuff?
We found out that the people who are paying for me to go to school won't pay for me to summer semester, so that freed up the schedule considerably. It finally worked out that the best time to go was the week of our actual anniversary.

The neighbors watched the kids for us.
Tuesday morning we got up and were to the airport by 5 am.





 This was who was waiting for us at the airport on Cancun. He was very pretty and his makeup was impeccable and his personality flamboyant. We had booked transport from the airport to our resort. However we were the only ones that booked it so our transport didn't want to drive that far out of Cancun. So we put us on another transport. It took us over 2 1/2 hours to get to our resort because of dropping other people off. By the time we made it to the resort it was like 8:30pm... we left our house at 4am. It was a long day.
By the time we made it to the resort I was grouchy, carsick, hungry, tired, and sick of  traveling.
The bellboy took us to our room and this is what was waiting for us. 
 There was also champagne, a cake, and more flowers all over the room. 
(Don't worry we left the champagne there)
 This was the view from our room. We were too cheap to pay for an Ocean view but the jungle view was nice and quiet.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Graduation Pictures 2013

The end of the school year is close, which means it's time for Graduation Pictures. 
May 2013- end of the year
 October 2012- first of the year
 End of the year
 
First of the year

May 2013- end of the year
October 2012- First of the year
End of the year
First of the year